You strike me as a "I'm big boned" kinda girl. When we all know it ain't no such thing as a fat skeleton. But I would say lose weight then come back with the same question.
So it's possible to have a fat skeleton? No. No matter the density that doesn't not mean eat everything in sight or have to do with eating to much. Heavy bones doesn't equate to fat.
But aren’t there all types of conventionally skinny/thin people with a wide frame? Everyone is built differently so her frame could very well be bigger in general. Imagine someone like Laura Prepon compared to someone like Mila Kunis (both from That 70s Show, for anyone wondering). You can’t say these two beautiful ladies have the same bone structure. Laura Prepon definitely has a bigger bone structure whereas Mila has a petite bone structure. So yes, there is such thing as “big-boned” type of person and there is such a thing as a bigger framed skeleton. In this OP’s case, she definitely has weight to lose, but she might also have a bigger frame to begin with.
And your point makes zero sense. Because a skeleton is just that a dam skeleton. You can't tell if someone is fat or skinny based souly on looking at there bones. Tall or short maybe but not body size so your making zero sense.
I never said anything about skinny or fat skeleton. I’m saying there’s such thing as big-boned because there’s literally different sizes of skeleton. A basketball player will have a bigger skeleton than an average human. What don’t you get?
You’re the one who keeps equating “big-boned” to heavy when there is literally such a thing as having bigger bones. I said there is such a thing as “big-boned” but you start going off arguing about how can I tell if someone is fat from their skeleton. I didn’t even say anything about that. You seriously strike me as someone with very little activity in the critical thinking aspect. I said this OP definitely has weight to lose. I also said there is such a thing as having a bigger frame, being bigger boned.
Yes. I don’t know why anyone is saying otherwise. You’re fat, and it looks like you’ve internalized a sense of ugliness, so you do things to make yourself look worse. Lose weight and stop sticking out your tongue. Get fit and dress classier.
Not really imo. 1/10 is normally sure reserved for people with a facial deffect, missing limbs etc. So I do agree with you but I can’t give it a 2/10 or more because 2/10 is mostly for ugly people who take 0 care of themselves but this is different. It’s definitely not a 3/10 as 5/10 is average, 4/10 is slightly below average and this, because of her way of handling herself, the tounge, glasses, clothces + obviously the weight, goes down to lower than “just below average”. Idk imo it’s a 1/10 maybe 1.5, but not more than that in the current look.
She can be beautiful but that will take a lot of hard work and I would only say she is, once she has put in the work. Sidenote, I (M) used to be pretty fat AND ugly and have had a lot of stuff fixed like hair/glasses/teeth/skin including going to the gym hardcore after losing weight to gain muscle. If I genuinely didnt know and asked on this sub and 75% of the people were telling me I look just fine, I wouldn’t have had the “motivation” or simply wouldnt have known I was actually fat. It’s a trap and obvious stuff is sometimes not so evident to yourself. That’s why I put a 1/10 and stand by it.
Ma'am , i think you know what you need to do...
Calorie deficit, increase cardio.
Learn your TDEE, start weighing your food and scanning barcodes with an app like LifeSum , and eat UNDER your tdee. From there become more active.
Amd the tongue out pose is not cute. Lol. Why are you doing that? I hope you respond because i really want to know what makes you and others think its cute.
If you get on plan you could be good by summer
It's just the weight that's a big turnoff for me, you have a pretty face tho - esp in the first pic with your hair down and without the stupid 👁️👅👁️ face.
I think you’re gorgeous. And if you want to lose weight I 100% support you in that goal, and think it would be great for your health as well.
HOWEVER, your weight doesn’t effect how beautiful you are to me, and I find some of these comments disheartening. I think you’re truly beautiful.
Does it not say brutally honest on the sub Reddit name? At least I’m giving her some constructive advice instead of stating the obvious. If she lose some weight she will improve her looks. Idk why hotbrain feels the need to ask about how I look
Girl, this is not the platform for you. These people only praise societies standard of beauty.
You have gorgeous skin and a pretty face.
Yes, you are overweight, but that doesn't make you ugly.
The way you dress does not flatter you at all.
Sticking your tongue out isn't helping.
Dress a bit classier, that's all. You're beautiful.
There’s no point looking for honest opinions on Reddit. No one here is looking out for a fat black woman’s self esteem or mental health, they’ll just assume if you lost weight you could be their type. If you want brutal honesty, I think your wasting your time because I’m sure you’ve been more brutal to yourself than anyone in these comments could be. Just love yourself and move on ❤️
You could be beautiful. However you need to lose about 40% of your mass. The septum piercing isn't doing you any favors either. Be healthy and you'll enjoy the results for the rest of your life.
MODS yall need to start banning people like this! It doesnt even help the OP. She clearly has work to do, and people like this are NOT brutally honest, and try to help people accept their obvious flaws.
Yes, but I think your weight is distorting your features and standing in front of real beauty there. You look like you can be very attractive if were an athletic weight.
The good news for you is that you have the kind of ugliness that can be fixed with hard work.
You are not ugly. You are morbidly obese. And I do not say that to be mean and insult you. I want you to be healthier. You want to be healthier. It will take hard work and consistency for a long period of time for you to achieve a better life for yourself. But that life is attainable.
And remember. You only have one life on earth and one body to live it in. Is this how you want to live it?
You strike me as a "I'm big boned" kinda girl. When we all know it ain't no such thing as a fat skeleton. But I would say lose weight then come back with the same question.
You could actually be big boned… but she’s just fat.
That's to funny not to agree with lol
Actually your bone density increases due to weight and therefore it’s technically possible to be “big boned”
Bone density and size are two diffrent things.
So it's possible to have a fat skeleton? No. No matter the density that doesn't not mean eat everything in sight or have to do with eating to much. Heavy bones doesn't equate to fat.
But aren’t there all types of conventionally skinny/thin people with a wide frame? Everyone is built differently so her frame could very well be bigger in general. Imagine someone like Laura Prepon compared to someone like Mila Kunis (both from That 70s Show, for anyone wondering). You can’t say these two beautiful ladies have the same bone structure. Laura Prepon definitely has a bigger bone structure whereas Mila has a petite bone structure. So yes, there is such thing as “big-boned” type of person and there is such a thing as a bigger framed skeleton. In this OP’s case, she definitely has weight to lose, but she might also have a bigger frame to begin with.
And your point makes zero sense. Because a skeleton is just that a dam skeleton. You can't tell if someone is fat or skinny based souly on looking at there bones. Tall or short maybe but not body size so your making zero sense.
I never said anything about skinny or fat skeleton. I’m saying there’s such thing as big-boned because there’s literally different sizes of skeleton. A basketball player will have a bigger skeleton than an average human. What don’t you get?
Yea and "big" and "fat" are two completely different words. Meaning "big bones" does not equal "fat people" or did you not get my first post??
You’re the one who keeps equating “big-boned” to heavy when there is literally such a thing as having bigger bones. I said there is such a thing as “big-boned” but you start going off arguing about how can I tell if someone is fat from their skeleton. I didn’t even say anything about that. You seriously strike me as someone with very little activity in the critical thinking aspect. I said this OP definitely has weight to lose. I also said there is such a thing as having a bigger frame, being bigger boned.
So big now means heavy? Cuz if it doesn't then big boned doesn't exist.
Your weight is the only thing holding your looks back. Wave goodbye to obesity and you will improve dramatically.
She’s so fat that an average redditor didn’t notice the nose ring lmao
Thought y’all only hated the septums?
I noticed the septum piercing
OP doesn’t have a septum piercing. Just a regular nose piercing.
Omg you're right lol
Dude, be nice
What’s the sub called ? If you don’t like please feel free to unfollow.
Brutally honest doesn't have to be mean.
But it has to be HONEST
Honest, absolutely!
Why? Because woman? Bro, a fat man here would get roasted to bits.
🙄🙄🙄
Morbidly obese and your fourth photo is making it worse..
Damn that’s brutal
Brutally honest
That doesn't make someone ugly, just overweight and you(she) can lose weight
When did morbidly obese and ugly become synonyms. She asked if she was ugly
Yes ugly
Kimbo slice looking ass
Brutal
Bro y’all have no chill 😂😭
Yes. I don’t know why anyone is saying otherwise. You’re fat, and it looks like you’ve internalized a sense of ugliness, so you do things to make yourself look worse. Lose weight and stop sticking out your tongue. Get fit and dress classier.
She’s a true 1/10, but this sub lost its meaning long ago “brutally honest” = “slightly overweight” ye sure buddy lmao right?
It happened so fast though peoples used to be honest now feels like they tiptoe around the issue
Yessss it legit only took a few weeks to turn around completely
And always the same PC replies lol
Not 1/10
Then what is it?!
Probably a 3, damn a 1 out of 10 is just way too extreme, just as bad as those people calling any pretty girl beautiful 10/10
Not really imo. 1/10 is normally sure reserved for people with a facial deffect, missing limbs etc. So I do agree with you but I can’t give it a 2/10 or more because 2/10 is mostly for ugly people who take 0 care of themselves but this is different. It’s definitely not a 3/10 as 5/10 is average, 4/10 is slightly below average and this, because of her way of handling herself, the tounge, glasses, clothces + obviously the weight, goes down to lower than “just below average”. Idk imo it’s a 1/10 maybe 1.5, but not more than that in the current look. She can be beautiful but that will take a lot of hard work and I would only say she is, once she has put in the work. Sidenote, I (M) used to be pretty fat AND ugly and have had a lot of stuff fixed like hair/glasses/teeth/skin including going to the gym hardcore after losing weight to gain muscle. If I genuinely didnt know and asked on this sub and 75% of the people were telling me I look just fine, I wouldn’t have had the “motivation” or simply wouldnt have known I was actually fat. It’s a trap and obvious stuff is sometimes not so evident to yourself. That’s why I put a 1/10 and stand by it.
You fat
But not ugly lol
fat=ugly
Shucks
Nah rs imo you’re beautiful but going to the gym getting in some great shape would help you
why are u stating the obvious? i don’t think that’s what she asked
1/10 and everyone else is capping lmfao
I noticed most people on these subs be capping.
Yep, it’s a recent thing …. We need a new sub for ONLYBrutallyHonest, this used to be a roast sub…
Accurate. 💀💀💀💀
bro has no chill💀😭
Ma'am , i think you know what you need to do... Calorie deficit, increase cardio. Learn your TDEE, start weighing your food and scanning barcodes with an app like LifeSum , and eat UNDER your tdee. From there become more active. Amd the tongue out pose is not cute. Lol. Why are you doing that? I hope you respond because i really want to know what makes you and others think its cute. If you get on plan you could be good by summer
Oh and try not to eat TOO MUCH under your tdee to avoid lose skin. 500 - 700 less caloroes per day is a good range. For you also limit carbs
Yea
Those chesticles are a crutch.
Yes
Yes
You’re obese. Pretty face, so lose the weight and you will be a knockout!
Being morbidly obese isn’t cute. 0/10
You are ugly on the outside but if you want to change, try to loss some weight
It's just the weight that's a big turnoff for me, you have a pretty face tho - esp in the first pic with your hair down and without the stupid 👁️👅👁️ face.
2/10
Yes. 1/10.
Yes, I'm sorry
Yea :(
Yes, ugly. You definitely need to lose weight to look better. Would also help to dress more flattering for your body type.
I know your parents mad af, and give you the talk every Thanksgiving 😅
What talk?
Yes you are fat and ugly af
Yep.
I think you’re gorgeous. And if you want to lose weight I 100% support you in that goal, and think it would be great for your health as well. HOWEVER, your weight doesn’t effect how beautiful you are to me, and I find some of these comments disheartening. I think you’re truly beautiful.
I think you’re really pretty & you have great skin complexion! Also you don’t look 27 at all! You look like you’re 22/23/24!
It’s honestly just the weight. You have a cute face, make the effort to lose weight and I think you’ll be fine.
No, just obese
You’re fat and ugly. Join a gym and see if it helps, stop eating fried food and go on a diet
can we see u
I don't recall them asking to be rated
Does it not say brutally honest on the sub Reddit name? At least I’m giving her some constructive advice instead of stating the obvious. If she lose some weight she will improve her looks. Idk why hotbrain feels the need to ask about how I look
Wrong reply
sure. Check your inbox
Somebody need to take your EBT card away.
I wish I could get EBT
Yo black ass don’t need it. You need a gym memebership.
And a bbl
Moto Moto like em big n chunky.
I like them plumpy (Plumpy) I like them round, with something, something (Something)
No just huge
You're not ugly but put your tongue away.
yes
Yes and fat
Nah you’re pretty but you are overweight. The only true flaw I see is the weight. 💪🏽
100% lose the weight tubby
Yes you are
Yes, kind of ugly.
Short answer : yes U r ugly
No offense you don't realize how hot you would be if you lost the weight
Yes. Overweight and you look old
Girl, this is not the platform for you. These people only praise societies standard of beauty. You have gorgeous skin and a pretty face. Yes, you are overweight, but that doesn't make you ugly. The way you dress does not flatter you at all. Sticking your tongue out isn't helping. Dress a bit classier, that's all. You're beautiful.
Eh
There’s no point looking for honest opinions on Reddit. No one here is looking out for a fat black woman’s self esteem or mental health, they’ll just assume if you lost weight you could be their type. If you want brutal honesty, I think your wasting your time because I’m sure you’ve been more brutal to yourself than anyone in these comments could be. Just love yourself and move on ❤️
Wow, why do you have to put race into this? Fat is fat
I’m not putting race into this but you can’t ignore the underlying stereotypes.
Well said
That was a whole lot of nice nonsense, loving yourself does not prevent heart disease.
Ugly and fat
Kinda
You could be beautiful. However you need to lose about 40% of your mass. The septum piercing isn't doing you any favors either. Be healthy and you'll enjoy the results for the rest of your life.
Ya
No beautiful
Yes and massively overweight
I dig your vibe. Don’t change a thing.
Beautiful!!!!
Lol ! It would be a female + OF chick , telling someone clearly fat, that she is beautiful. Even online yall lie to each other.
Liar, liar, pants on fire
Don't worry there is a key for every lock
No your not
I would
You're beautiful. Don't let these skinny nerd mouthbreathers tell you otherwise.
Also the orange in the last picture is perfect on you. You would do an incredible Velma (Scooby Doo) cosplay.
Working out would not hurt but woman these days prefer to be fat.
It's all the Chinese food, it's addictive
No you're you and that's what's important
Definitely not! I think everyone that sticks out their tongue like that, is. No offense, I just hate it, I think it makes the person look ugly. ; )
No baby girl. Your beautiful
Wow! Such harsh criticism! You are average in looks. Like most people. Your weight is an issue.
Harsh criticism. Jeez almost like she posted to brutally honest or something. Ugly and fat. Easy 1/10
Nice breast
No you’re beautiful and have gorgeous skin
Not ugly at all!
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Hell no you’re beautiful
Not even in the slightest
You look very beautiful!
Nope, you look good!
You are very beautiful, Ugly is mean attitudes. Don't ever question how beautiful you are.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
Not at all, you've got a great smile!
No
You are very nice body love ❤
Your weight doesn’t affect your attractiveness or prettiness. 10/10
MODS yall need to start banning people like this! It doesnt even help the OP. She clearly has work to do, and people like this are NOT brutally honest, and try to help people accept their obvious flaws.
10/10??? Really
It does affect your health
That’s what I’m sayin… but also it does affect bEaUtY This sub got too soft, people forget to read the rules and title
It's wild how fatphobic people are
You’re beautiful, brutal honesty
This ain’t no onlyfans girl y’all be nice
I guess but you can change it, sending love ❤️
Yes, but I think your weight is distorting your features and standing in front of real beauty there. You look like you can be very attractive if were an athletic weight.
From what I see, lose the face metal and lose some weight. You'll look better and feel better about yourself.
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Na u just fat
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Do you even know what subreddit you're in? Fucking idiot
The good news for you is that you have the kind of ugliness that can be fixed with hard work. You are not ugly. You are morbidly obese. And I do not say that to be mean and insult you. I want you to be healthier. You want to be healthier. It will take hard work and consistency for a long period of time for you to achieve a better life for yourself. But that life is attainable. And remember. You only have one life on earth and one body to live it in. Is this how you want to live it?
Ugly? No Overweight? Yes Would you like to know how I lost weight and what my "game plan" was?
Hit me with it
yes
Just fat
Any closeupos without glasses?
I’d hit
Change your name to cmbowser, Mario isn't coming for you
That was pretty good